It was just one question. But it made all the difference. So many times, queer folks walk into medical spaces and feel invisible—assumptions are made, checkboxes don’t fit, and we’re forced to explain ourselves over and over. But this time? The doctor saw us. She recognized that my wife and I both gave birth. She didn’t assume, didn’t erase—she simply asked an inclusive question. And honestly? I could’ve cried happy tears on the spot. Because little things like that? They’re huge. They make us feel like we belong. And that should be the norm—not the exception. 🏳️‍🌈✨ 🎧 Full episode here: https://buff.ly/3EtgUEi or link in bio! #queerfamilypodcast #inclusivitymatters #lgbtqparenting #familyequality #queerfamiliesbelong #fertilityjourney #healthcareforall #makingbabies #lovemakesafamily #representationmatters

We know all the technical terms on this show… except, we don’t. At all. 😹" Listen, if you’re looking for a podcast that breaks down every fertility medical term with scientific precision, this ain’t it. I’ve literally had the procedure we’re talking about and still had no clue what it was called. 💃🏿 But here’s what you will get—real stories, real laughs, and a whole lot of heart. Because at the end of the day, queer family-building isn’t about the medical jargon. It’s about the humanity behind it. And that? We know plenty about. 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️✨ 🎧 Full episode here: https://buff.ly/4gzpbno or link in bio! #queerfamilypodcast #fertilityjourney #lgbtqparenting #makingbabies #wewontbeerased #familyequality #lovemakesafamily #fertilityfails #queerhumor #parentingwithpride

So let me get this straight (pun intended 😘)—straight couples can walk into a fertility clinic and get treatment, no questions asked. But queer couples? We have to prove we’ve been “trying” at home first. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️👀 Yes, you read that right. Many LGBTQIA+ folks are forced to pay for multiple rounds of unnecessary IUI before they’re even considered eligible for fertility coverage—something straight couples never have to do. Why? Because the system wasn’t built for us. It’s biased, it’s unfair, and it needs to change. No one should have to jump through financial and medical hoops just to build their family. 🎧 Full episode here:https://buff.ly/3QcEE24 or link in bio! #queerfamilypodcast #fertilityforall #lgbtqparenting #queerfamilybuilding #fertilitybias #familyequality #loveislove #wewontbeerased #iuitruths #fightforfertility

We're better off without your 'traditional family values', thank you very much. The idea that there’s only one right way to build a family is not just outdated—it’s dangerous. In Italy, so-called "traditional family values" are weaponized to create laws that push LGBTQIA+ folks down, stripping away rights and protections. And let’s be real—here in the U.S., we’re watching similar patterns unfold in real-time. The wave of anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation, executive orders, and relentless attacks on queer families aren’t just political moves; they’re personal, and they’re designed to make us feel like we don’t belong. But here’s the thing—we do belong. Our families are real. Our love is valid. And no amount of lawmaking can erase us. 🚨 If you’re not paying attention, now’s the time. Watch, listen, speak up, and fight back. Our families deserve more than this. 🏳️‍🌈✊🏼✊🏾 🎧 Full episode here: https://buff.ly/41aICOQ or hit the link in bio. #queerfamilypodcast #protecttranskids #lgbtqrights #wewontbeerased #queerfamiliesbelong #familyequality #transrightsarehumanrights #loveislove #fightback

🏳️‍🌈Check out today's new episode! Sophie and Agnese take us through their rollercoaster path to parenthood—navigating the NHS fertility system, picking a sperm donor, dealing with a sperm shipment fiasco, experiencing loss, and even switching wombs along the way. You don't want to miss this story 🏳️‍🌈 🎧 Listen now:https://buff.ly/40Vihmy or hit the link in bio! #queerfamilypodcast #newepisode #lgbtqparenting #ivfjourney #lesbianmoms #knowndonor #spermdonation #fertilityjourney #lovemakesafamily #lgbtqfamilybuilding #ivfsuccess #rainbowbaby #parentingwithpride #inclusiveparenting #californiacryobank #familyequality

Jaimie shares a heartwarming conversation with Sophie and Agnese from London, showcasing the resilience and adaptability of queer families. They detail navigating the NHS fertility system, selecting a sperm donor, and the emotional challenges faced during the process, including a sperm shipment fiasco, a miscarriage, and a couple of womb switches along the way. Through perseverance and adaptability, their journey ultimately leads to a successful pregnancy. Tune in for an inspiring testament to love, determination, and the beautiful complexities of LGBTQIA family-making. 🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank - use code loveislove (https://www.cryobank.com/), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters. 🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! ⁠⁠⁠ thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈  * The process of choosing a sperm donor involves numerous considerations, often shifting from physical attributes to health factors. * Miscommunications during international sperm shipments can pose significant challenges, but situational resilience is key. * Emotional support and understanding are crucial in managing the personal and shared complexities linked to fertility treatments and unexpected hurdles. * Shifting roles in pregnancy within a queer relationship can foster deeper mutual understanding and reinforce the bond between partners 🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 * Sophie and Agnese are a resilient and inspiring queer couple based in London, England. Sophie works as a casting agent in the film industry, while Agnese, originally from Rome, Italy, has established herself in the tech sector. Together for six years and married for two, they are on an incredible journey to build their family, expecting their first child after navigating the complexities and challenges of assisted reproduction as a lesbian couple in the UK. 🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:  * California Cryobank - cryobank.com (Use code: LOVEISLOVE) 🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! 🏳️‍🌈 - Email: thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast - Website: https://www.thequeerfamilypodcast.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ovariestalk/ - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast - YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNhon0J_IfFovDUAzS9v2WQ 🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible🏳️‍🌈 https://amzn.to/3F9qRUc 🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch here🏳️‍🌈 https://bit.ly/TQFPmerchandise 🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato🏳️‍🌈 The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation! 🎙️ Episode Chapters: 3:16 Queer Couple's Journey to Parenthood and Podcast Discovery 9:03 Navigating Family and Identity in Traditional Societies 12:48 Navigating Fertility Treatments and Donor Selection in the UK 21:22 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Choosing a Sperm Donor 23:30 Navigating Bureaucratic Challenges in International Sperm Shipment 28:51 California Cryobank's Support for LGBTQ Community and Family Building 30:15 Navigating Sperm Donation Challenges and Customs Hurdles 34:34 Compassionate Fertility Care and Doctor-Patient Relationships 37:18 Navigating IVF Challenges and Legal Hurdles for Queer Couples 41:00 Navigating IVF Challenges and Queer Family Planning 44:32 Navigating Genetic Ties and Emotional Journeys in Parenthood 45:53 Comparing IVF Costs in the UK and USA 47:26 Pregnancy Joy and Testing Frenzy 48:52 Navigating Parenthood and Identity in a Queer Relationship 52:25 Coping with Anxieties and Miscarriage Challenges 55:07 A Lesbian Couple's Journey Through IVF and Miscarriage 1:00:49 Resilience and Hope in the LGBTQIA+ Baby Journey 1:02:59 Celebrating Queer Families and Supporting Parenthood Journeys The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!