We got real close to straight in this episode… and it’s still hella queer, lol. A home insemination. A donor mix-up. A surprise positive test. If it sounds like something out of a hetero rom-com, think again. Kim & Katie’s path to queer parenthood includes heartbreak, laughter, intentionality, and thawing sperm under a boob. (You read that right.) 🎧 Full episode’s out now! Link in bio or click here: https://buff.ly/gq0VUIf #queerfamilypodcast #lgbtqfamily #donorconception #twomoms #queerparenting #loveislove #accidentallypregnant #hellaqueer #lesbianvisibilityweek

Kim and Katie’s story is a perfect mix of heart, humor, and all-too-relatable chaos. From a late miscarriage to successful home insemination (involving a boob and a vial 👀), they share what it really takes to build a queer family—love, intention, and a lot of flexibility. 🎧 Tune in to this week’s episode of The Queer Family Podcast to hear their full journey—from donor mix-ups to parenting in a mostly straight suburb. Click link below or in bio to listen now: https://buff.ly/RsOPyiA #lgbtqfamily #twomoms #donorconception #makingababy #loveislove #queerjoy #intentionalparenting #lesbianmoms #familybuilding

Kim and Katie walk us through their ultra-intentional path to queer family building: from meeting online and moving in together lesbian-fast, to getting certified as foster parents just in case, to navigating a heartbreaking late miscarriage after IUI in a clinic, to finding success through home insemination—and thawing donor sperm under a boob. As we dive deeper, the episode unpacks the layered complexities of queer family building. The couple reflects on the fear and beauty of non-biological parenthood, the nuanced choice between known and anonymous sperm donors, and how a simple donor mix-up led to a deeper understanding of what really makes a family. With humor, heart, and radical honesty, Kim and Katie show us the power of queer intentionality, the importance of early and open conversations with their daughter, and the legal logistics we all have to consider—especially now. Through all the twists and turns, their story is a beautiful reminder: queer families are built with love, purpose, and a whole lot of intention. 🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank - use code loveislove (https://www.cryobank.com/), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters. Check out Everywhere is Queer! IOS: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.everywhereisqueer.app&hl=en&pli=1 Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.everywhereisqueer.app&hl=en&pli=1 🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! ⁠⁠⁠ thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈  * From foster certification to home ICI: A uniquely intentional family-building journey * The donor mix-up that became a story for the ages * Navigating miscarriage, grief, and queer resilience * The non-bio parent perspective and bonding fears * Choosing an anonymous donor—and rethinking it years later * Legal protections, second-parent adoption, and estate planning * Talking to their daughter about donor conception, early and often 📍 Bonus: The sperm vial was thawed under a boob. Yes, really. 🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 * Kim and Katie are a married lesbian couple raising their 7-year-old daughter in a predominantly straight suburb outside of Philadelphia. After facing unexpected hurdles—including a pregnancy loss, a donor switch, and the legal logistics of queer parenting—they’re now parenting with joy, honesty, and visibility. Their story is a testament to the power of love, intention, and community. 🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:  * California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE * Get you TQFP Merch here: https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/ 🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! 🏳️‍🌈 - Email: thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast - Website: https://www.thequeerfamilypodcast.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ovariestalk/ - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast - YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNhon0J_IfFovDUAzS9v2WQ 🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch here🏳️‍🌈 https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com 🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈Theme song: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈Logo art: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍⚧️Timestamp Summary 0:00 Exploring Donor Conception and Queer Family Dynamics 3:41 Balancing Passion Projects and Family Responsibilities 6:00 Navigating Parenthood with Donor Conception and Unexpected Surprises 8:32 Queer Family Podcast: Love, Laughter, and Parenthood Journeys 18:05 Navigating Parenthood Decisions and Challenges in a Queer Family 26:00 Creative DIY Insemination and the Power of Love 30:00 Exploring Donor Options with California Cryobank 30:59 The Journey of Parenthood and the Search for a Donor 31:57 Choosing a Sperm Donor Based on Personal Resemblance 32:44 A Surprising Pregnancy Discovery During a Holiday Visit 35:22 Choosing a Donor and Embracing Parenthood 38:28 Attempts at Inducing Lactation and Breastfeeding Challenges 39:28 Navigating Parenthood and Connection in Donor-Conceived Families 46:46 Legal and Social Challenges for Queer Families 51:19 Celebrating Queer Families and Music Lessons The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!

They started their search at the sperm banks—scrolling through profiles that felt like dating apps if your mom wrote the bios. 😅 But then came Oliver, their close friend, who offered to be their known donor... and everything changed. In this episode, we explore how thoughtful, emotional, and beautifully intentional queer family building really is. And if you're starting your journey too, California Cryobank is a great place to begin. 💙 ✨ Use code loveislove at cryobank.com to get a free Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog. Because every journey is different—and yours should start with all the info and support you need. 🏳️‍🌈👶 🎧 Listen to the full ep at link in bio for all the details and a lot of laughs. #loveislove #queerfamilybuilding #knownspermdonor #donorconception #lgbtqparents #intentionalparenting #californiacryobank #familygoals #queerpodcast #californiacryobank

What does it actually mean to use a known donor? Kim, Katie, and I get into the nuances—legal, emotional, and practical—of building family with someone you know. Spoiler alert: it takes clarity, intention, and love. ✨ “He’s not the dad. But he’s definitely part of the family.” Known donors FTW. 🏆 Listen to the full convo now—link in bio or wherever you pod. #knowndonor #queerfamily #chosenfamily #twomoms #queerparenting #donorconception

When Kim and Katie were deep in the sperm bank rabbit hole, a friend made an offer they couldn’t ignore: “I’ll be your donor.” Sometimes, the best options come from the people who know and love you already. 💛 This is the part where intention meets connection—and it’s beautiful. Full episode in bio or wherever you get your pods. #knownsperm #queerfamilybuilding #donorconception #chosenfamily #lgbtqiaparents #queerfertility